Warm hugs for those nights (U)

Some nights, some cold nights, I will miss my mom and her warm hugs and then sleep coz sometimes somethings just can’t change, no matter what :3

#NoH8  #Mom  #MissThoseHugs 



Yeah! You really happy haan? Being loved and pampered and taken care for..nice, that’s the way it should be…But I request you, I sincerely request you, not to be pleased, not to be satisfied for just one day or a few days in a year… Remember, we accept the love we think we deserve.

Ahh Lady! You otta be loved more and respected more and cared for more, not just yesterday but today and everyday. Perhaps more today than yesterday but not as much as tomorrow.



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Unfortunately humans are so weak that when the grapes can’t be reached the grapes become sour and we humans remain human.

Hell yeah! Learn to make them sweet. #CinderellaManWay

#Mr.Fox #LaceUpMate #TryAgain #ShowThemYourRad and #LoveAll :’)


#Earl TheWol

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“If someone is nice to you but is not nice to the waiter then they are not a nice person.” Servers and bartenders know this to be unequivocally true. Be assured that anyone demeaning a waiter has usually not worked in the restaurant industry. Or at least not for very long. It is “beneath” them.

Everyone should work in “The Industry” for at least two years. The job will teach you to improvise; be quick on your feet; multi-task; prioritize; schmooze; problem solve; take responsibility; and save face. All skills important to business and/or employers.

It will expand your tolerance, empathy, and intuition. It will sharpen your deductive abilities, define your confidence, and bolster your toughness. All qualities important to being a good and just person. And a leader.

It will introduce many friends. Some will become important for the rest of your life. Most will come and go. A select few will be memorable for how much misery they inflict upon everyone, and these are usually the folks in charge.

Most importantly, The Industry will show you what people are really like with their guard down. They will half notice you as you drift in and out of their time. It’s a hard picture to take in. You will experience constant casual cruelties. Incredibly irresponsible parenting. Outright douchebaggery.

Etiquette is a lost tradition. You will learn this quickly. Hopefully, it will make you more polite. It will certainly make you appreciate good manners more than you did before.

You will see extraordinary kindnesses. You will be involved in intimately personal experiences. Perhaps you will be the catalyst of a first date that leads to a marriage. Perhaps you provide a sympathetic ear on the bar at just the right time to prevent tragedy.

Just be aware of the dark side. The Industry means a life shifted into the shadow of everyone else’s. You work during everyone else’s party time. You party when everyone else sleeps. You sleep while everyone else works. Sometimes you will feel like a ghost. The only ones who can see you are your fellow members of this Secret Society.

Most shifts are stressful. You will need to unwind. By the time you can, there will be no other choice but a bar with other Industry folks. You will have a great time. You will spend a lot of money. You will do it every night.

Workers in restaurants and bars are second only to construction work in terms of alcoholism. It is a real danger.

Health insurance? Sick Leave? Pensions? No. Paychecks are low to non-existent. Many American Industry workers are paid only in tips. Depending on others for your income can be either rewarding or depressing. And it is a mistake to dwell on the results. Move on to the next bill.

The Industry can trap you. That’s fine if it’s what you want to do but many lose the thread of their life’s plan and The Industry claims them. Staying late. Covering shifts. Working on days off. Constant long hours. It takes over your life and leaves you time for nothing else.

But The Industry has many lessons to teach. Everyone should learn them. In many ways it is a microcosm of life in general. Do the best you can despite the pressure from all sides. Make what you can and save what you can. Keep your dreams in sight and do not succumb to the everyday grind. Tolerate the bad in people and embrace the good.

The Industry is not for everyone, but everyone should learn this for themselves. To serve others is to learn more about yourself.

To learn more about yourself?
That’s the point of life.

#Earl TheWol #Requoted
#RAP-SKI Works




Shawty, let’s spend our week nights eating cereal on the floor when there is a perfectly fine table behind us.
We can go to the movies and sit in the back row just to make out like kids falling in love for the first time. Marry me.We’ll paint the rooms of our house and get more paint on us than the walls. We can hold hands and go to parties we end up  ditching to drink wine out of the bottle in the bathtub. Marry me and slow dance with me in our bedroom with an unmade bed and candles on the nightstand. Let me love you forever. Marry me ♥

#NappyBoy :’D


If my love were an ocean,
there would be no more land.
If my love were a desert,
you would see only sand.
If my love were a star late at night,
only light.
And if my love could grow wings,
I’d be soaring with you in flight.


#Requoted by
Earl TheWol

#NappyBoy :’)
#pawankalyani :’D


I will love you recklessly Shawty. I will love every little detail of you, the enlarged pores on your nose and your nose ring, the sprinkle of freckles across your cheek  and your dimples, the way you push your lips together and inhale deeply as you break in to play your instrument. I will love you so much that I will drink these details as though they were gloriously intoxicating, and I will etch them out in my mind and play them back to myself like our favourite old record when you’re gone. I will commit myself to you wholly; I will let you possess me. I will love you in such a way that parts of me will become you and I will hold on to those parts as though they were secrets whispered in gold.

I will love you as though you were the only person I’d ever loved. I will love you intensely, I will throw myself around you recklessly and if you love me back I will be humbled, truly humbled. I will love you so much I will try to be a better person every day. I will work harder, smile more, love better—all because of you. Despite this, the way I love you will be effortless, it will fit me like my favourite black tee, glowing in your presence. I will love you boundlessly and unselfishly, and my love will not be metered by your love for me. I will love you irrespective of everything.

I will love you fleetingly. I will love you in my bed for one night; I will love you for a few short days in Tokyo or a week in Venice. I will love you sitting on my stoop one drunken night. I will love you even if I never see you again, and I will love you just as passionately as I’ve ever loved, if only for a moment. I’ll recall you tenderly in the stories that I will tell for the rest of my life, and I will love you retrospectively. I will love you like a ghost, like a flower that has bloomed and died; I will love you with an inconceivable abandon. I will love you as achingly and deeply as I can in the short amount of time we’ve been allotted.

I will love you in all these ways because I can and I happily want to. I will love you because it’s lovely to love you. I will love you because whether you are my mother, my best friend, the love of my life, I think you’re perfect. I will love you because you’ve made my life more wonderful by simply being it. I will love you because I don’t know what else to do, and I don’t know if there is another name for this feeling, or if I really want there to be another name for it. I will love you because there isn’t enough love in the everyday. I will love you because I love loving, and because you deserve to be loved.


#Requoted by
#Earl TheWol

#NappyBoy :’D
#pawankalyani :’)


Shawty I know I stammer awkwardly and don’t say the words I should say. I sounds good on paper but do not even speak half a word in reality. And you stare at your instrument or looks up at the sky.

But that isn’t crazy. I know I am quiet because speaking is difficult. All my words, every breath is surrendered to looking at you Shawty. Because love itself is wordless. Love is a verb.

Earl TheWol

#NappyBoy :’D
#YouAreBeautifulShawty :’)


My Bike. Full Tank.
Slow Drive :’)
Slow Drive and Rains :’D
Happiness Unlimited, Time to Spare
No Worries, they go down the Drain
Hot Water Shower, as the music *Life* goes on!

#pawankalyani :’D


#‎BabaJhingo‬ ‪#‎NappyBoy‬ ‪#‎RingleaderMan‬ :’D